Cue the hallaleujuah chorus. I'd rather be without my dryer or oven than the ice maker.
Wednesday, August 14, 2013
Phone Photo Dump
Cue the hallaleujuah chorus. I'd rather be without my dryer or oven than the ice maker.
Monday, August 12, 2013
River 2013
Our week (back in July) at Blue Run this year was soggy and wet, and not just because we were river rats. It rained every day we were there. The weekend brought good weather, though, and since that’s when all the guys are with us, that’s the most important part anyway! :)
We cooked, swam, boiled peanuts, fished, played with cousins, chased off trespassers (I may have been slightly close to “losing my witness” on that one), played board games, had Sonic limeades at least a half dozen times and just enjoyed being at the river!
AB made her diving board debut this year. She took a little convincing at first, (in the form of straight up bribery by her Daddy, who promised to buy her some new Barbie clothes) but by the end of the week, she was a pro.
She swam OVER THE RIVER GRASS while we were floating with the boat and it blew my mind. But when you’re with your Dad it just doesn’t seem as scary…and that’s the way it should be. :)
Mamie kept everyone on their toes chasing her. :) She liked to be IN the water, just not IN the water. She wanted to be held in the water, but up high enough that she didn’t actually have to touch it.
Her favorite part of the river this year had to be the turtles. She would lean over the edge looking in the water and say “TUR-DLE” over and over again. It was the cutest. She also practiced her fish identification when we’d take rides on the boat…everything she saw was a “Mul-yet.” Who needs sunshine anyway, when you’ve got Mamie around???
The week was like it usually is, and everyone just kind of came and went as we could. DW, the girls and I ended up staying the majority of the week and the last night may have been my favorite. The evenings are always the best, when all the floaters have gone home and the water is quiet and calm…its always so peaceful. We sat down by the water and fed the fish, swam a little more and then DW, decided to climb the tree and jump. AB was SO impressed and loved it.
He racked up a few extra “Daddy-can-do-anything” points that night. :)
The only bad part about a week at the river (even a rainy week) is having to leave it.
~amw~
Friday, August 9, 2013
Eight…
Looking back, I was just a baby myself…having a baby. Cooper was the only one of our children who was a “surprise” and we are eternally grateful for those forgotten pills and the perfect gift that came from them. :)
Like most young parents, I couldn’t believe they were actually letting us take him home from the hospital. I am sure it was because they knew my parents were going to be staying with us for two weeks while I healed from my c-section. Either way, they let us wheel him down to the front and still didn’t stop us when we didn’t even know how to hook his car seat and the nurse had to show us how.
DW drove and I sat in the back and stared at that sweet tiny boy. I had a six inch incision, hadn’t slept in two days, and my chest was increasingly growing massive in size and felt like it was on fire --- but still in that moment, EVERYTHING in the world seemed good.
We were young and naive and still living safely within the walls of a life that hadn’t experienced an earth shattering tragedy. Sure, we knew bad things happened, but until they happen directly to you, its easy to push fears and thoughts of the bad things to the back of your mind.
We loved being parents from the start. We enjoyed our boy and made a lifetime worth of memories in our 27 months with him. It didn’t take loosing him for us to realize what a gift he was, and I will always be grateful that we don’t have to live with that regret.
It’s always a hard time of year for us, as his birthday gets close. Its hard to not focus on the “how it should be’s” or “what if’s” --- it’s hard to think of a way to celebrate him when the reality of him not being here still hurts so very much.
All I can keep telling myself is that God is good. And I believe that with my whole heart. He is faithful and He continues to sustain us and carry us through the hard days. He loves us and has blessed our lives tremendously by giving us family and friends who do, too.
Cooper changed our lives.
~amw~





















